性爱之后

内容全，男男女女的都有，各个年龄段的都有，各个职业的，跨越人种的，超越国籍的，几小段的故事。

可惜讨论的都是些残羹冷炙，没新的东西，拿袋饼干边吃边看吧

[欢愉之后].After.Sex.2007.Festival.DVDRiP.XviD-iNTiMiD.avi

提防、猜疑、试探、防范、进攻、射闪、计谋、策略、犹豫、迷惑。

这是爱情战争的主要形式，恋爱的结果并不重要，游戏过程便是一切。

爱情变的尴尬而微妙起来。

以前的爱情，基本上是男女双方与社会环境作战，现在，爱情的主战场转到男人与女人之间。

一个人套起盔甲，正面站着，像是有些坚硬，这是粗粝的人生所要求于他的，而待其慢慢转过身子，背后还是露出了荏弱的部分。

但就是这么一些相悖的东西，构成了一个完整的人。

这是没有办法的事情。

所以，还是温柔的转身，说出来，“i love you”，等着你的，会是动容的“i love you,too”。

其实本片是看似有点色，但是挺严肃的探讨性的电影。

但可惜的是，美国人的性观念，距离我们中国人实在太远了。

不要说同性恋或性派对，就是看两个人刚云雨之后，还要拼命反驳我们没有爱情，极力否定我对你有感觉，就让我不可理解。

性，应该是两个人爱到浓时，无声胜有声的感情升华，那才是美好美妙的，而不是纯动物性的发泄。

我觉得好莱坞电影总在传导少年破处还很酷的理念，实在不可理喻，但又客观存在。

感觉本片对性的探讨还仅限于表面，从不同人的侧面来表现人对性、爱的观点，但只是一种反映缺乏深度的思考。

看，总是不清楚到底是电影误导我们还是生活误导我们众多杂志以及网络的普及男人们告诉我们xxoo会浪费多少的体力爽过之后哪里还有精力和耐心和你说话事后烟或者蒙头大睡可是可是可是整个影片围绕的可不是哦全部都是两个人事后的各种交谈聊性和爱的区别以及看谁先说爱和一场博弈一样爱可不像在床上谁能让谁gc一样简单两个初试云雨的孩子尴尬的聊着彼此的感觉聊到底谁应该是男人谁应该是女人聊曾经的战绩辉煌历史甚至聊到彼此的职业聊到同性恋恐惧症......这个片面有另外的翻译是做爱后动物感伤动物才不会像人如此纠结呢感伤毛啊人类会感伤才对而且感伤的大部分是女人---另我觉得这个编剧是个话唠都唠出来应召女郎第一次什么的了

这个电影有意思。。

有青年那女，有男同，女同，老年夫妻，离婚夫妻，一夜情的。。

要表达的是情而不是性。。

在性的背后有更大的主题，那就是人与人之间的感情。。

最喜欢第一段最后两个人终于坦荡荡的说了我爱你，好温馨的。

离婚夫妻还混在一起，但还是不知道自己究竟要的是什么。

一夜情的就更离谱了。。

一切一切告诉我们的，在孤独的世界里，性带来的快感只是表象，而感情，才是我们真正需要的，珍视的。

- Love is not negotiable.- Everything is negotiable.- No, not love. Love is a guessing game. And that's the beauty of it. There's no guarantee. It's like, diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep. And sure yeah, if shallow you may end up hurt and paralyze from the neck down. But if it's deep, you know, it's a loop of faith. It's like, throwing yourself out there without any guarantees. Dude, that's what life is about. Ok, you know those carnival games? And you know some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins?- Sure.- That's the difference between love and sex. Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize and no one goes home a loser. And love is the game that it's really hard to win. But if you do, and you get to take home that life-size stuffed rhinoceros. It feels a whole lot better than taking home a cheap plastic key chain.

虽然是说sex，但很多是关于love的讨论。

关于为什么要上床的问题，关于sex如何让人们认清自己，找到真实的自我的问题。

一切谈话，都过于暧昧了。

如果不那么暧昧的话，会好一点。

这些谈话都是在情人之间或者sex buddy之间进行的，似乎所谈论的都是关乎心理的，而不涉及sex本身的质量。

难道质量就不重要么？

我想这个电影应该是很小成本的电影。

对于一个没有特效，没有故事情节，只有talk的电影来说，如果拍的比写小说散文还烂，那就真的不应该了。

假如影像不能表现自己想说的话的话，那还不如选择用文字表达。

1 love. expectation. responsibility2 Gay. Straight被忽悠成Gay3 第一次。

还被抓包4 女Gay5 老变态的自娱自乐和自我解脱6 10? 01? 11? 00? xy7 一个傻+没逻辑的女人(没看太懂)8 又一个弱智的女人 --> 原来是装傻的 哈哈

"Love is not negotiable.Love is a guessing game,and that’s the beauty of it.There are no guarantees.It’s like diving into a pool of waterwithout knowing if its shallow or deepand sure [yeah] if its shallow you end uphurt and paralyzed from the neck down,but if it's deep…[you know] it's a leap of faith…its like throwing yourself out there withoutany guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.You know those carnival games,you know how some of them are really hard to winand those that are super easy and everyone winswell… that’s the difference between love and sexSex is the game where everyone wins a little prizeand no one goes home a loserand Love is the game that’s really hard to win.but if you do and you get to take home thatlife size stuffed rhinocerosand it feels a whole lot better than takinghome that little shitty plastic key chain."What is love? Who can specify it? Except falling in love at the first sight, does love exist in other forms?Maybe it's when love exists in other forms that it's so difficult for us to admit or to know that we love the other.Sex and love are separable, but sex and love are blended for the people in the stories of this movie. That's why after sex they argued or talked so much. The old couple wanted so much to tell their happy and wild sex they had in their younger days to their children, but they were afraid their children wouldn't be able to accpept it. They weren't sure how their children would react to it. We, as children, date, fool around, have sex behind parents. The experiences may be good, or bad. But whether it's good or bad, we want so much to share them with our parents just as the old couple wanted to share with their children. If it's good, we want to share the happiness with them; if it's bad, we wish we could turn to them for company. But we dare not to tell them. We conceal the experiences we care most from the ones whom we want to confide to most. We and our parents cannot open our hearts to each other. Who should be blamed for this? Why can't we take sex naturally and admit all types of sex? We all hate to be constrained by moral rules and social codes, but they are made by us. Why we human beings torture ourselves?