文科恋曲

关于知识He that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow.圣经里说，增加知识就是增加忧伤。

关于文艺的高雅和低俗How can you hate something if you've never read it? Isn’t that like what repressive regimes do? You wanna burn books you don't like?连《小时代》都没看过的人，只听到别人的评论，有什么资格讨厌这本书呢？

焚书坑儒吗？

These books make people happy. We don't always have to be thinking about poli-sci or reading Chaucer.一些低俗的书使人快乐，没人天天想读政治或乔叟。

-you are not supposed to like it.-But then why read it?你自己不喜欢就不读，但你没有让别人不读的权利。

-Is it all about understanding different points of view?-It's also about developing taste.-that was snobby. You're a snob. you think it's cool to hate things. And it's not. it's boring. Talk about what you love and keep quiet about what you don't.这个世界是需要多元还是品味？

批判他人或许是因为自己利欲熏心？

-This country is in a bad shape. And it has to do, in large part, with people liking things that are very, very bad.-Why are you the one who gets to decide what's good and bad?-And do you only want to surround yourself with people who read the same books as you?艺术、思想不提升就是因为天天看抖音，但谁来决定抖音到底是好还是坏呢？

关于毛毛虫Did you know there are so many preservatives in the food we eat that they’re finding it's taking longer for our bodies to decompose once we die?人们常说吃多了防腐剂不好，殊不知它让我们的身体放缓于腐烂。

At some point these sells show up called imaginal cells. Scientists don't know where they come from and why they appear but these imaginal cells show up inside the caterpillar and say, “get psyched, caterpillar! It's butterfly-turning-into time.” And what do all the other caterpillar cells do when imaginal cells show up?The attack them. Try to kill them. They’re like, “screw you, imagine cells. We're happy being a caterpillar. Get lost!”Eventually the caterpillar turns into a butterfly. And that is why there is no reason to be afraid.当毛毛虫想要变成蝴蝶的时候，体内的细胞会安于现状，但无论怎么反抗，最终毛毛虫都会变成蝴蝶不是吗？

关于诗歌Life happened. I value discretion. I loathe the self pity. people are disappointing.生活本身如此，人们无药可救，比起自怜自艾，我们更应该谨慎前行。

They were miserable men who were granted a few moments of transcendence. And they had the talent and foresight to grab pen and paper and write it down. Byron was probably the happiest of the lot, only because he put his dick in everything.诗歌并不能让你变得积极乐观，它们都是一群悲惨的人被赋予一时才华写出来的满纸荒唐言。

拜伦已经算其中最幸福的了，因为他见谁都上，至少当下快乐了一回。

Get used to it. My advice to you is this. Put some armor around that gooey little heart of yours.给自己多愁善感的心穿上铠甲。

关于逃离What if I’m like one of those prisoners that gets paroled and finds he can't handle life on the outside. So he commits a petty crime so he can go back to what he knows.生活让人无处可逃，你就像个被假释的逃犯，却发现回到社会上自己一无是处，只能再次犯罪，回到那个熟悉的监狱。

Any place you don't leave is a prison.生活即监狱。

关于读书I'm actually trying to read less. I felt like I wasn’t watching enough television. I started to feel like reading about life was taking time away from actually living life. So I'm trying to like accept invitations to things, say hi to the world a little more.在书中感受生活，不如直接生活，“每个人都会死，来看会儿电视吧。

”关于变老-You’re getting wise.-I’m getting old.-not the same thing, I say you’re getting wise. You worry about getting old?-I think being old’s gonna be okay. It’s just getting there that kicks your ass.-you're going to be a great old guy.-I think you're going to be a great old person, too.变老也意味着变得更有智慧。

我很喜欢这一段：我相信因 果轮回/不你相信的是罪恶感/但是在行动之前的罪恶也被叫做道德。

人的行为动机被论述得很清晰很有意思，道德本就是教条，世俗对各类事物辨别性质判定好坏然后以此对人进行约束，所以也有之后的认为好事回报好事，坏事回报坏事，根源都是对教条的信 仰。

很美好的一部电影。

我们生活的世界到目前其实接触到最多的是同龄人，从幼儿园到学生时代，周围都是和你一个年龄的人物，你从日日夜夜都能见面的人身上是感受不到时间的流逝的，父母也是如此。

只有在分别了多年之后再次相见，才能感受到时间对于一个人的作用。

大学真的是很神奇的一个阶段，在大学里的人想要出来，离开大学的人想要回去，在大学毕业后，似乎所有的故事都会有一层模糊的滤镜，你已经遗忘了那些困扰你很长时期的事情，你觉得都过去了。

那些事物都变成了你生活的脚注，它还存在那里，但只是在你的生活中存在着，它提醒你在这个时期发生过这个，但也早就变成生活的一部分了。

我们在年轻的时候畏惧衰老，身体功能下降，头脑反应迟钝，皱纹，白发，我们不再灵活，无法随意做自己想做的事情。

昨天和妹妹去欢乐谷，播报员说这个项目年龄限制是五十周岁，我的父亲还有三个月的时间能坐大摆锤了，但他真的很老了吗，我似乎一直对父母年龄的概念都停留在了三十七八岁，那个是我最初对年龄有概念的时候。

我大三了，似乎高中也不是很久远的事情，但是已经过去很久了，我经历了两年的大学生活，在看了这部电影之后，我还有一年时间来品味我的大学。

35岁男主的听后感特别走心。

Dear Zibby,I can’t thank you enough for introducing me this music. Beyond this genuinely loving it, I feel it quietly altering me feeling about New York City, with which I’ve always had a slightly conflicted relationship. I’ve found that if you replace the horns and the shouting with, say, Schubert or Telemann, the city becomes unbearably beautiful. After years of thinly disguised rage on both our parts, it’s like music has mediated a truce between us. Some early favorites, Massenets’s Meditation. If a more beautiful piece of music has ever been composed, I don’t know it. That Brandenburg concerto is no joke, and I echo your sentiment regarding Beethoven. Wow. I’ve no idea what the Vivaldi piece from Giustino is actually about, but to me, it suggests deception, some kind of elegant double-crossing. It makes me feel like I’m a double agent knee deep in some kind of sexy espionage. I’ve decided the Wagner overture you included should come with a warning label. According to some quick online research, the opera deals with the struggle between sacred and profane love, which is arguably the only struggle there is.The other day, I was crossing the street, lost in my head about something, not uncommon state of affairs. I was listening to the overture, as the music began to swell I suddenly realized that I had hands and legs and a torso and I surrounded by people and cars. It’s hard to explain exactly what happened. But I felt in that moment that the divine, however we may choose to define such a thing surely dwells as much in these concrete and taxicabs as it does in the rivers, lakes, and mountains. Grace, I realize, is neither time nor place dependent. All we need is the right soundtrack. I suppose this new infusion of music in my life is, at the very least, make me reconsider my hastily to dead, white males. And I’ve you to thank for that. How’s things, by the way?Your friendJesse Fisher Jesse,Things is good. So happy you’re loving the music. I felt my whole life got an upgrade when I took that class. The thing that floors me most is that human beings wrote that music. Are people writing music like that nowadays? If they are, I don’t know about it. I hope you’ve fallen in love with the piece from Cosi fan tutte. I find that when I listen to it, for some reason, everyone I see becomes instantly more attractive. Please experiment with it and get back to me.Elizabeth,You were right about the Mozart piece. It somehow made everyone in New York looks like a viable romantic partner. I can’t escape any longer. I think I like opera. You are never to tell anyone this, ever. Seriously.Your opera secret is safe with me. I’ve been relistening to the music after each of your letters. I like hearing your take and then revisiting them. And even though Pennsylvania stands between us, knowing we’re hearing the same sounds makes me feel you are not all that far away. If I haven’t been clear about this, I miss you. Hmm, don’t really know why. I barely know you. By the way, handwritten letters, greatest thing in the world. Keep them coming.You ask why music like this isn’t being written today. I wonder if these composers were expressing things musically that are too large for our current psychic state. Anyway , all is fine here. College continues colleging along…Massenet’s Meditation, for instance, and I worry that my nervous system is ill-equipped to contain such immensity of feeling.I bet if we went there at the same time, we’d have been great friend.Will this music be the death of me? If so, you’ll have blood on your hands, Elizabeth. Can you deal with that?Jesse, as much as I love this letters, I’d like to see you again. The sooner, the better. So come back here and see me. The dudes here continue to be 18 to 22 years old, and they continue to act their age, I’d like a gentleman caller, and I’d like him to be you.Ever yours,Zibby

开头看二位听交响乐和歌剧，定期通手写信，两页没横格的白纸工工整整写下来，决口不谈油盐酱醋只谈opera如何神圣空灵，再加上男主列在白纸上的竖式算三十五减十六得多少，我几乎要以为这又是一部类似「成长教育」的电影——charming的中年男人和早熟的文学少女，标配外加眼花缭乱的成人世界背后必须藏着个不大不小的肮脏秘密。

直到老教授开始坐在办公室里和自己二十年前聘用的人argue一个工作而失败，或者是我始终没认出来的Zac Efron带着小红帽友情客串半夜降临，我才逐渐感觉，「文科恋曲」这个译名不好呀不好。

要说「Liberal Arts」究竟讲了什么，还不好找一句话概括而谈，但至少肯定more than一段互相成长的恋情。

剧情脱离「成长教育」是从Jesse在Zibby宿舍看到一本有关吸血鬼的小说开始的。

两人就此产生分歧开始讨论这类消遣类书籍存在的意义，Zibby反驳他“你没有看过就直接说讨厌这和独裁政府有什么区别”，Jesse不负众望的花了数天读完了小说，之后再郑重其事的讲它们不该存在的原因。

——中二文学中年尚迷恋晦涩的大部头小说和酷酷的英国文学教授，初入大学的少女潜意识中想要把与成熟的人交往变成让自己成熟的捷径。

可是与此同时，是old and wise的老教授不甘心的想要重回职位。

尽管他说，什么地方呆久了，都像监狱。

尽管他说，他觉得自己在19岁之后就再没有成长过，但是你得明白，即使你身边都是19岁的人，即使你觉得自己依然19岁，但你不是。

You can get old, you will get old, but you cannot be sure that if you will be able to be wise.于是理所应当的可以预见当问题触及到sex的时候，want to be old and wise的少女和半夜列竖式的文艺男中年不可避免的会遇到一场让关系变化的争议和分歧——一个觉得自己已经足够为自己负责，一个想着这是个充满consequence的需要脚踏实地的世界。

好玩儿的是男中二终于在当晚遇到了当年十分崇敬的酷酷的文学教授——被酷酷的文学教授当性工具上了一床后，教授急匆匆的轰他走——男中二瞬间confused，青年偶像幻灭也就算了，but what had happend.教授说，life happened。

教授还说，人们都是令人失望的。

教授点了根事后烟说“你咋还不走？！

”于是Zibby到底还是明白变老没有捷径，Jesse也终于明白“中二不是姿态是病态”。

好像一场全民的成长教育。

我们不能不再读书，可是我们也不能将读书变成逃避现实的方法，书让你开阔也让你狭隘，最后变成你拒绝成长的理由，长在身体里变成抗体，抵御着世界带给你的改变，可是你要明白，并不是所有的不愉快的改变，都是不好的。

我们不能永远十九岁。

也不能当一个英年早逝的天才。

我们该做的，是慢慢、慢慢变老。

你总得取消手机静音，有的时候合上书，出去走走。

I saw myself in Liberal Arts, I am a schoolboy, like Zibby, he is 30-something old fellow, I can’t help attract by him, the mature charm. I wish they could be together, since it is the dream I am not able to achieve in my real life. I was sick of the relationship of Jesse and bookstore woman, probably she is far below pretty and cute. Why 30-something cannot choose young school boy or girl? They could be together like the homosexual in ancient Greek. I dreamed the scenes about he go back to campus and we walk on the avenue, there are plentiful secrets and stories he could share with me, about his life here, as a schoolboy. Tremendous topics, how could I find next you? I am young and beautiful, you don’t like it, do you? People keep saying age is the last thing we should consider, what do you think of it? Nonsense? Why age bothers you a lot? I wish I could understand. I still love old fashion men, it is hard to alter I guess.

身为一个文科生，应该好好赞扬一下这部片。

热爱文学，热爱念书，看过形形色色的书籍后对这个癫狂和肮脏的社会的各种评判，我们喜欢生活就像的david thoreau《walden》般的美好，我们也希望遇到一个纯净的爱情像《pride and prejudice》中的男女主角一样如此对口味，可以飞跃世俗阶层包括自己自身的种种障碍。

就像此片中的男主把自己的英国浪漫主义文学的女老师当做很崇拜一样，女主elizabeth期待一个浪漫无比的爱情，遇到一个有点超现实主义的对口味的对象，她突然觉得自个整个应该把自个交出去，她就能实现一个巨大的转变，她可以握住爱情。

男主之前都没有成长，他一直希望自己回到校园回到一直都会是18-22岁的大学里。

他画年龄刻度表，也写各种情书，这种校园恋情让他顿时觉得生活有了起色有了美好。

但是一切戛然而止于sex或者说道德之前，不能说男主不敢去，而是他终于承认并且现实 35和19并不仅仅是数字的含义而已。

就像生命是个过程，红帽子小子讲述生命的过程一样，19不可能一下飞跃很多年变成蝴蝶，有一天她会get out of school。

但是肯定是未来的某一天书中鼓励人们勇敢去爱用力生活，他给人们幻想，给人们制造希望。

但是有时候又带给人们绝望。

艺术高于生活，指导我们生活。

但是他们从来都不是生活。

就像电影中男主对自杀哥说的一样，不要做什么倒霉的先知一样，变老是一件很美的事情，伟大的作家画家先知都是悲剧的一生，他们的孤独他们的经历他们的选择都是普通人生命中难以承受的重，以致于甚至不得不以离群索居甚至以结束生命得以解脱或者灵魂升华。

我们不能以先知和伟大的艺术家为榜样，去崇尚甚至以他们的行为去标榜自己，因为我活在现实中。

现实就是我们看书，体会书中的情节跌宕起伏，但是千万不能把书中的情绪带到现实生活中去。

不要因为书籍而脱离现实的生活。

我们通过书籍全面的看待生活而不是把自己设定为书籍的人物去活着，以为这就是完美的生活。

我很喜欢这段带点遗憾的文科恋曲，也非常欣赏男主打破女主的幻想，而英语老师打破男主的幻想的桥段。

想象中的角色不是生活。

你自己才是生活。

不管你看了多少文学名著，中间又多少凄美浪漫无比的桥段。

你还是现实中的自己，从来不曾变过。

I miss college.Actually I started to miss it when I was still in there. I occasionally thought of the nights I walked from Russian class back to my dorm practicing pronouncing the trilled "R", the nights I was touched by the poems from Chinese class, and the nights a friend and I were singing "Gone with the sin" all the way along the lotus pool. And when I realized those nights, including the lonely nights I simply spent reading books in the library or watching movies in dorm room, would be gone from my life for good, it was already the last few days of my senior year.And then I start to earn myself spaghetti and sugar-free cream soda, pay for my own rent, schedule the time for research, class and gym deciding if I need to sacrifice sleeping, and I know the carefree hours of reading literature begin to charge. Jesse is pretty much like the other guy Joshua Radnor plays - Ted Mosby, who is an architect (and a architecture professor now) that can recite Dante's Divine Comedy in Italian, and is a huge Neruda fan and a wine taster as well, but can never seem to meet the right one. And here I see Jesse and Ted have the same situation - the difference between the real and the envisaged life.Jesse loved English literature and probably dreamed of a life of serious fine works and a girlfriend with same interest, and that's why he became angry when he found the same girl who recommended classical music to him was also a Vampire Trilogy fan. Zibby explained it was for killing time and was fun to read, but Jesse refused to understand. Whoa. Maybe this is also the situation we are confronted with. I had chances to make friends, great sincere genuine friends, but then it was like, she was a Twilight fan, gross; she RTed soul-chicken-soup weibos, double gross; she rooted for Li Na "because she's the pride of China", okay we're completely done. Then comes the thought that I'm fine, safe and sound, even if I'm alone. I'm not surrendering to these philistines' taste. And yes it is totally fine, when in college.However,"What happened?""Life happened."This was the answer from Jesse's favorite literature professor, after they had sex.Perhaps it explains. What you admire the most, doesn't even give a fuck about how you treat it.Grow up and get back to adulthood.-Some interesting facts about the movie:One of the Vampire Trilogy in this movie is "Lunar Moon", which is exactly the book Zibby and Jesse read, and on the back cover of Lunar Moon, we can see that there's one called "Solar Sun" of this trilogy.OMG, is there any "Aquatic Water", “Nocturnal Night”, "Deviant Aberrancy" to this series? LOL This is funny.Jesse: (The Vampire Trilogy) This is the worst book ever written in English. Zibby: There're worse books written in other languages? Jesse: Probably not, unless this book is translated into other languages. --I didn't give it a higher score because I believe Radnor could have done a better job than this. He put so many things into this movie that the main idea(s) was(were) greatly attenuated.

居然在年末看到本年最喜欢的电影。

这是2012年的电影，搁在我硬盘里也有2年了，随便翻出来看看。

舒缓的音乐、温馨的布景和奥尔森。

看来我可以轻松地打发1个半小时。

直到看了60分钟，他老师Peter走进咖啡馆,看到Jesse和Zibby在一起，和Zibby打招呼又无视Jesse离开。

Peter说"I've had to be very clear with myself that even though I'm surrounded by 19-year-olds and I may have felt 19.I'm not 19 anymore"."Nobody feels like an adult.It's the world's dirty secret."说的是自己，但字字砸在Jesse身上。

Jesses说过”"I loved the most about being here was the feeling that anything was possible.It's just infinite choices ahead of you.And then you do get out,and...life happens and choices are no longer realy there"。

正因为此，Jesses对校园、老师、学弟总是充满感情。

回想开头，Jesse扛着行李走路还在看书，东西被偷都没发觉；对他最喜欢的文学老师充满激情，却被浇了一头冷水。

原来他已经和社会格格不入，也和现在校园格格不入。

突然明白了Zac Efron讲的毛毛虫寓言——“And what do all the other caterpillar cells do when those imaginal cells show up?" "They attack them，'Screw you, We're happy being a caterpillar！

'"如果阻碍你的不是负面的东西，而是美好的东西呢？

如果美好东西一直都在，但是生活变了呢？

"ANY PLACE YOU DON'T LEAVE IS A PRISON".故事到这里已经可以结束了。

但是编剧还是安排了一个happy ending。

=====================看到图书管理员总觉得很眼熟。

原来是《暮光之城》中的吸血鬼妈妈。

ORZ，无缝切换到恋爱模式，实力派演员。

=====================THANK YOU TO LET ME WATCH THIS BEFORE I BUILD A JAIL FOR MYSELF IN WHICH I "PROTECT THAT GOOEY LITTLE HEART" ,=====================Jesse最推崇的书《Infinite Jest》之前也被我收藏了，不过这1000页我有没勇气看还是个问题。

-I think one of the things I loved the most about being here was the feeling that anything was possible. It’s just infinite choices ahead of you. You’d get out of school, and anything could happen. And then you do get out, and life happens, you know? Decisions get made. And all those many choices you had in front of you are no longer really there. At a certain point, you just got to go, “Oh, I guess this is how it’s going down.” And there’s just something a little depressing about that.-Well, don’t you think you’re romanticizng youth a bit much? You know, ’cause it’s just as hard and annoying to be young as it is to be old, I’m assuming.They were miserable men who were granted a few moments of transcendence, and they had the talent and foresight to grab pen and paper and write it down. Byron was probably the happiest of the lot, only because he put his dick in everything. My advice to you is this: put some armor around that gooey little heart of yours.Well, any place you don’t leave is a prison.I sometimes feel like I’m looking down on myself, like there’s this older, wiser me watching over this 19-year-old rough draft, who’s full of all this potential, but has to live more to catch up with that other self somehow. I know I’ll get there. It’s just sometimes I think I want to rush the process, you know? And I don’t know. Maybe…maybe I thought you were some sort of shortcut.You know, he said the purpose of fiction was to combat loneliness.Well, on the other hand, spending most of your time with an 1,100-page book tends to put a dent in your social life.Yeah.Loneliness simultaneously increased and decreased. 这个故事里的每一个人都是致命孤独的。

整本电影一共就几个演员，但是每个人的存在都是孤独的一种。

不管是女主角留着自己的贞洁只是因为没有遇到对的那个人，不管是男主角对纽约的抵触，不管是peter教授花了37年以一个纽约人的身份留在了这个小镇而后做不得自己喜欢的事情，不管是男主角第一喜欢的女老师似乎洞穿了人生的涵义看清了生命的本质，甚至是诗人的本质，还是试图自杀的dean。

还有书店的女生，她说她希望自己少读点书，因为从书中品味生活占用了她太多时间，她希望能真正亲身体会生活。

每一个人都好可爱。

有人说导演试图像伍迪艾伦致敬。

但是除了开头的大段台词和焦虑焦躁的口气以外，我觉得导演都是他自己。

故事不需要大起大落，就是平淡和一丝绝望。

好在还有一个红帽子的智者在相信着everything will go right。

吸引我看这本电影的因素是文科生和校园。

离开校园的感觉就像第一段摘录的台词一样。

在校园里，我们感觉一切皆有可能，你做任何事情都不会有人觉得你是奇葩。

而当你真的离开学校，你必须做出选择，而那个时候你才发现你面前的选择不复存在了。

毕业到时候我也像jesse一样舍不得离开，我希望我永远能是大学校园的一份子，可以看一整天书，与书本智慧打交道。

进入社会的无助和绝望，真的让人失去了对生活的信心。

就像女教授回答jesse的what happens. Life happens。

这是一首寂寞的小插曲 不是所有的大叔都能在拥有成熟外表的同时拥有对等的心智。

对于35岁的Jesse来说，他的时间停留在大学毕业的那一天。

所以当他重返校园时，他兴致高昂，满地打滚，一瞬之间便重返了那个他心心念念的时光里。

少女爱大叔：错误的时间遇见对的人 Jesse很纠结对于Zibby的感觉，这段忘年恋因为年龄的差距让他很捉急。

可实际上，这完全不是忘年恋，从心理层面上来说，不过是同龄人的恋爱——Jesse面对陌生人的搭讪甚至没有Zibby应对自如；觉得烦闷的时候还得Nat这个远比他年轻的怪人开导；会和Zibby因为阅读品味上的差异而争执不已——你算哪门子的大人呢？

你以为留了满脸胡子就是成熟的表现了吗？

虽然你主动接触并开解了Dean，可那其实只是你在透过他开解心中那个长不大的自己吧？

都说爱情让人成长，都说同龄的女生比男生更早熟，和Zibby“同龄”的Jesse的确在一定程度上成长了。

他开始接受烦人的都市生活，学会从另一个角度去欣赏他理应面对的现实世界。

本来面目可憎的东西因为音乐的渲染而变的美好——尽管其实他只是塞起耳朵把它们排除在外。

又如何呢？

事物的好坏更多的取决于我们心境与内心的坚强。

但注定他们是无果的。

Zibby是希望Jesse能帮助她走向成熟，但他本身即是个不成熟的存在；Jesse也只是希望通过Zibby回顾曾经的时光，未来的？

还没想到。

他们是在错误的时间里，遇见了对的人。

偶像崩塌：当梦想照进现实 偶像的存在意义是什么？

让你向往、学习、走向新世界？

在Jesse一再反复强调中，Prof. Judith Fairfield 应该就是这样的存在了：你为我打开了通往英国文学的另一扇窗。

也许连Jesse自己都没能意识到，他对于这位女教授是有着一定的向往与期待的。

纵然女教授对他一再冷漠以对，但他依然如故，一再对她表达他的崇敬（爱慕？

）之情。

明明在派对上是那么怯生生的一个人。

Jesse就是这样了，对于文学以外的事情都陌生得不行，甚至不擅交流与表达。

而一旦与文学扯上关系，他就会眉飞色舞，口如悬河，没有任何人事能阻挡他的发表自己的看法。

Prof. Judith Fairfield就像每个男生成长中都曾有过的女神那般，遥不可及却又渴望接近。

所以当这位女神愿意走进他时，他一脸惊慌失措，却又跃跃欲试。

偏偏这位女神在好事的结尾，给了他结结实实的一巴掌，让他醒了过来。

在偶像轰然倒塌的那一刻，他终于挥别了过去，认清了现实。

你说，那中指是为谁而竖起？

终极BOSS多是路人甲：总有你的菜在身旁 Ana其实很早就出现在Jesse的生活里，电影中用了非常鲜明的对比暗示了Ana的存在：前女友对Jesse说我没必要再去恭维你的衣着了，镜头一转，便是Ana的主动称赞，“你的新衣服真不错”。

只是彼时的他除了手中的书，其他都没什么兴趣。

不然也不必绕了一大圈，才回到生活的原点。

Ana其实也和Jesse一样，是一个过分沉溺于书的世界的人。

但她已经意识到这样不行，也试着去减少阅读的时间，尝试新的生活，并学着去发掘事物的另一面。

Jesse其实也是幸运的，在他完成了对过去的缅怀、认清了现实后再遇上在各方面和他都较契合（尤其是年龄）的Ana，他才能在Ana的带领下发现，原来平日里看起来烦闷又忙碌的纽约，也是有着它悠闲与宁静的一面。

要欣赏夕阳不一定在大学校园里才显得特别有意境，在大都市里，也可以享受属于自己的片刻安宁。

Ana就是那个你随时都可能错过的路人甲，但她却比你生命中的每一段插曲都来得亲切而真实。

还盯着电影海报和二次元里的女神们做啥？

留意你身边的女生才是正道啊！